People say Life is not simple. But it's only us, who make our lives complicated. We can easily make our lives simple and full of fun. Here are few tips which will help you making your life simple.
Remember when you were a child you used to smile a lot, mostly for no specific reasons. Where has that smile gone now? It has been lost in pursuit of becoming a sensible adult. That innocent smile that won a million hearts has disappeared behind a rational human being. Now we smile only for photographs or on special occasions.
1.Smile often for no reason
Remember when you were a child you used to smile a lot, mostly for no specific reasons. Where has that smile gone now? It has been lost in pursuit of becoming a sensible adult. That innocent smile that won a million hearts has disappeared behind a rational human being. Now we smile only for photographs or on special occasions.
Smiling is a very powerful and contagious act. If you smile often whatever be your mood, you will feel a sense of happiness. The people around you will also feel the same vibe. I have been using this technique for quite some time now. I smile when when I go pass a stranger. Most of the times the stranger smiles back. If you are smiling for a reason that reason can be take back from you any time. You do not need a reason to smile.
This "I don't know" feeling that you get from time to time only means that you have to ponder some more to arrive at something solid. When you leave things at this stage; they tend to become huge and often cancerous when they catch your attention the second time.
Be your best friend. Introspect a lot. Avoid cursing yourself. Be comfortable in your skin, you don't have to change your wardrobe just because someone says that you are a low maintenance person- it is their perspective and you do not need to give a damn!
In this advanced age of smartphones and self driving cars, we think that we can do multi tasking as well as a computer. We can talk to our friends while looking at our facebook updates. We can enjoy the beach while constantly checking for emails. We can attend a lecture while playing candy crush saga. Human brains do not have the capacity to handle a lot of tasks at the same time.
When you were a child, you did not think about office files while building a castle on the beach. You were so engrossed in the work at hand that you did not care about any other task. If you are able to remove unnecessary distractions from your life and focus on a single task, you would make your life much simpler.
Children tend to do what they feel like doing. They do not worry much about the consequences or what others will think. But as we grow we start practicing extreme social caution. We start caring about how others might be judging us. How am I looking in these clothes? What will my colleagues think if I speak up in the meeting?
The fact that most people do not understand is that no one really cares about you. People are so much engrossed in their own lives that they do not have time to think about you.Once you realize this it will be a big step towards freedom. You have a great idea and want to start a company. Go ahead with it. You are willing to travel the world and have saved enough for it. Start traveling now.You should only care about people who really love you a lot and who will be there with you during the worst of times. These are your family and close friends.
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." - Robert Brault
All through our lives we keep looking for a purpose. We remain in a mindless pursuit for meaningless success. In that pursuit we keep on ignoring the small things in life that can give us a lot of happiness.
A child gives a lot of importance to these little things. That is the secret of their happiness. They do not complicate their lives with a number of goals. They dance in the first rains of the season, sing when they hear their favorite song and laugh when they are cuddled.
There are so many lessons a child can teach us that can make our lives so much simpler. We just have to observe and follow them.
These are the few most important factors we should care about to make our lives simple. There are various other factors which we should take care of. They are:
2.Start defining your emotions
This "I don't know" feeling that you get from time to time only means that you have to ponder some more to arrive at something solid. When you leave things at this stage; they tend to become huge and often cancerous when they catch your attention the second time.
3.Be your best friend
Be your best friend. Introspect a lot. Avoid cursing yourself. Be comfortable in your skin, you don't have to change your wardrobe just because someone says that you are a low maintenance person- it is their perspective and you do not need to give a damn!
4.Remain focussed on the work at hand
In this advanced age of smartphones and self driving cars, we think that we can do multi tasking as well as a computer. We can talk to our friends while looking at our facebook updates. We can enjoy the beach while constantly checking for emails. We can attend a lecture while playing candy crush saga. Human brains do not have the capacity to handle a lot of tasks at the same time.
When you were a child, you did not think about office files while building a castle on the beach. You were so engrossed in the work at hand that you did not care about any other task. If you are able to remove unnecessary distractions from your life and focus on a single task, you would make your life much simpler.
5.Don't care much about other people
Children tend to do what they feel like doing. They do not worry much about the consequences or what others will think. But as we grow we start practicing extreme social caution. We start caring about how others might be judging us. How am I looking in these clothes? What will my colleagues think if I speak up in the meeting?
The fact that most people do not understand is that no one really cares about you. People are so much engrossed in their own lives that they do not have time to think about you.Once you realize this it will be a big step towards freedom. You have a great idea and want to start a company. Go ahead with it. You are willing to travel the world and have saved enough for it. Start traveling now.You should only care about people who really love you a lot and who will be there with you during the worst of times. These are your family and close friends.
6.Enjoy the little things
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." - Robert Brault
All through our lives we keep looking for a purpose. We remain in a mindless pursuit for meaningless success. In that pursuit we keep on ignoring the small things in life that can give us a lot of happiness.
A child gives a lot of importance to these little things. That is the secret of their happiness. They do not complicate their lives with a number of goals. They dance in the first rains of the season, sing when they hear their favorite song and laugh when they are cuddled.
There are so many lessons a child can teach us that can make our lives so much simpler. We just have to observe and follow them.
These are the few most important factors we should care about to make our lives simple. There are various other factors which we should take care of. They are:
- Stop trying to control every thing in your life and learn to let it go.
- Don't think too much about future, your life and family problems.
- Make friendship with very few people.
- Don't maintain close friends and best friends, just it will give the pain.
- Don't love anyone, there is too much to loose.
- Don't trust anyone, if you have any problem just tell to your parents. Don't tell to your friends, because actually they don't care about you, they don't listen your problems just they are waiting for their chance.
- Don't use (frequently) facebook and social networking sites.
- Don't care about others and rumors. If anyone is about to start like this "I heard something about you" don't allow them to start.
- Accept the truth that passion is just overrated. Don't copy others people ambitions, lifestyle and passions.
- Don't spend too much money on others.
- Learn to say no.
- Start to read the inspiring life stories and in your free time start to read the books it will give motivation and relax.
- Don't get jealous by seeing things which others have, you don't have.
- Start to live like child, Smile often for no reason.
- Trying to live a life with no phone.
- Tell the truth because you don't have to remember what you said.
- Do yoga daily it can give a power to control your emotions.
- The best way to happy with someone, is learn to be happy alone. That way the company is matter of choice... not necessity
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